“LET’S” THANK GOD “ABOUT SEX”: Daniel Whyte III, President of Gospel Light Society International, says bunk what some sweet Evangelicals, Charismatics, and Protestant Christians say, who talk and act like sex is filthy and dirty, yet some of them are being caught in adultery, sued for sexual harassment, trapped watching pornography, and busted for sexting. Outside of salvation through Jesus Christ, sex is one of the greatest gifts, blessings, and pleasures from God to man-kind. Sex has been raging HOT since Adam and Eve (NOT ADAM AND STEVE, BY THE WAY), since Solomon and Sheba, and since Napoleon and Josephine and her famous “ZIGZAG” Sexual Technique. Whyte says further sex inside of marriage between a man and a woman is very important for many reasons, especially in the ministry. If a pastor is not having sex frequently with his wife, he cannot concentrate on the ministry. He will be distracted constantly by that fine, voluptuous Sister Sylvia in the church, who gives him more compliments than his wife and who is seemingly willing to have sex with him more than his wife as well. If he is not careful, he will cry out like David: “But as for me, my feet were almost gone; my steps had well nigh slipped,” or he may say with Solomon, “How foolish was I.” “Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.” So, pastors’ wives, your husband needs lots of sex, give it to him willingly and cheerfully when he is ready. “LET’S” THANK GOD “ABOUT SEX.”
- Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
-I Corinthians 7:1-5
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
The Bible is straightforward about the origin of sex: it was God’s idea. God created the two genders, and human sexuality, including all its physical, emotional, and spiritual intricacies, is God’s invention. Of course, sexual intercourse serves to perpetuate the human race, but sex has more than a utilitarian purpose. Sex is pleasurable by God’s design, and it is an intimate act—it helps create a bond between a husband and wife. Some people struggle with the issue of the pleasurableness of sex, thinking that it is sinful to seek physical enjoyment. Is it wrong for a married couple to have sex for pleasure, or should sex be reserved only for those times when the couple is trying to have a baby?
Because of the pervasiveness of pornography and the widespread perversion of sex in our culture, some people, including some sincere Christians, have the idea that sex for pleasure is wrong. They feel guilty about enjoying sex and would rather reserve the sex act for procreation; sex becomes something to be tolerated as the only way to make babies. Such a perspective is not biblical. Sex does not equal sin—not even sex for pleasure. Immorality (sex outside of marriage as defined by God) is wrong, but not sex within marriage. “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4).
A married couple having sex for pleasure is no more sinful than that same couple enjoying a chocolate dessert together. There’s not much practicality about eating a dessert—it is not eaten to sustain life or to provide nutrition; it is eaten for pleasure. As long as the couple keeps their dessert-eating within appropriate bounds, their enjoyment of chocolate desserts is fine. If they start lusting for chocolate, gluttonously eating nothing but chocolate, or stealing chocolate, then there is a problem. But the enjoyment of the dessert is fine in itself.
One Old Testament book deals at length with the subject of passion and sex for pleasure within marriage. The Song of Solomon is detailed in its description of the wedding night—although its use of metaphor tones it down somewhat—and, traditionally, Hebrew boys couldn’t read it until they were 12 years old, when they became men. The beautiful imagery of chapter 4 evokes scenes of serenity and delight. This is not a couple doing what they must in order to conceive; this is a couple surrendering to one another and simply enjoying each other. They are having sex for pleasure.
The biology of the human body argues for the acceptability of sex for pleasure. God designed the body to respond pleasurably to touch in certain areas. He could have made us with no desire for sex and no gratifying sensations during sex, but He didn’t. He gave us sex not merely as the means to propagate but, as a bonus, a gift to be enjoyed. God intended sex to be pleasurable.
Biblically, a married couple is expected to have sexual relations: “Since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control” (1 Corinthians 7:3–5). According to this passage, the normal, natural state of marriage is for a husband and wife to have sex regularly. The deprivation spoken of is not the denial of having children but the withholding of sexual relations. If a husband and wife are not having sex for pleasure, then something is wrong.
Sex, whether it’s sex for procreation or sex for pleasure, is a gift from God to the marital union. The feelings of sexual longings and pleasure during sex were created by God, and God designed marriage to fulfill those longings and experience that pleasure. God fashioned us for sex and created the emotions to go with it; pleasure was intended. We shouldn’t let Satan and his lies keep us from providing pleasure to our spouses and enjoying ourselves. Neither should we fall victim to the counterfeit sexual pleasures the world offers outside of marriage. God’s pleasure is real and satisfying; Satan’s counterfeit is empty and destructive.
Source: https://www.gotquestions.org/sex-pleasure.html
Napoleon and Josephine’s volcanic romance was so overtly sexual – including her famous ‘zigzag’ technique – that it transfixed Europe. Now Ridley Scott’s new film starring Joaquin Phoenix reveals the French emperor’s devastation when they divorced
Theirs was the love affair of the century – the 18th century.
She, the spoilt daughter of a slave-owner, raised on a Caribbean plantation, who ate so much sugar that her teeth turned a grizzled black. He, the hollow-cheeked military upstart with an astonishing capacity for rudeness trumped only by his unwavering arrogance.
Their relationship was so tempestuous, dramatic and overtly sexual that it transfixed and alarmed French high society in equal measure, while the couple’s exploits – in the boudoir and on the battlefield – have become the stuff of legend.
Her full name was Marie-Josephe-Rose de Tascher de La Pagerie. But she is remembered simply as Josephine, wife of Napoleon Bonaparte and Empress of France.
Yesterday saw the release of Ridley Scott’s epic blockbuster biopic tracing the life of Napoleon (Joaquin Phoenix) and his marriage to Josephine (Vanessa Kirby, best-known for her brilliant portrayal of Princess Margaret in The Crown).
It is set to grip audiences, plastering the couple on billboards up and down the country – a haunting reminder of what might have been, had the Duke of Wellington lost to the vainglorious Corsican at Waterloo in 1815.
Director Sir Ridley, whose credits include Gladiator and Alien, points out that 10,400 books have been published about Napoleon’s life: ‘one every week since he died’. But far less has been written about the only woman he ever truly loved, and whose name would fill Napoleon’s final breath.
Josephine – known to her family as Yeyette – was born on the tiny Caribbean island of Martinique in 1763. Her once-prosperous family was in decline, living in a crumbling mansion in the middle of their plantation, from where Josephine’s father, drunkard gambler Gaspard, could see his 300 enslaved men, women and children toiling in the sugar-cane fields, watched over by brutal overseers.
